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I have pondered this question at length.. and I don't know the answer.. my sons are in that age range. both of them have informed me that I for sure will not be a grand mother. I actually worked through a mini grieving process for many personal reasons. My sons are every gainfully employed as well as wife and other significant other, she has a child from a previous marriage. Employment and the low birth rage among educated Americans of European descent (our family) should be viewed as two different and separate issues. I normally would not have even responded but I did spend lot of time thinking about this. I was divorced from their father, many of their peers.. also came from divorced families.. and we are live in what would be middle to upper middle environments; I took a look at my family Heritage and other sites of my sons fathers, both sides of family were hard working in all areas; from the trades, engineers, metal workers, many military, my own grand father was a Phd in Chemistry,, MIT.. etc. all the way to coal miners on my Italian side, and many families had between five and 12 children per couple, e.g. I do have hundreds of cousins,, by blood: what struck me was with a couple exceptions, and those were because one of the spouses died young and then usually man or woman remarried and had MORE kids was: first, faith,, Catholic or Lutheran or Episcopal., baptisms and church records, and secondly as I mentioned because the deep faith aspect of my family tree, very few documented divorce. I am talking about not anecdotal.. I have thousands of DNA relatives which go back to the 1600s.. even 1500s. (I started doing this recently) and I was actually extremely shocked. Anyone can go on Family ark.. something like that see for themselves.. all people.. all walks of life. America has gone secularly woke. In my opinion will get worse before it gets better. anyway, IMHO. :) isabell

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Frederick R Smith's avatar

Great essay!

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